Many parents who foresee a potential custody battle fail to properly prepare.  Careful preparation for an anticipated custody battle is key to success.  Today's blog post will offer guidance to parents on how to prepare for the legal challenges ahead, when a Judge will determine which parent has custody of the children.

First, parents should remain completely involved with the children.  Becoming distracted by unecessary work, travel or new romantic relationships will significantly reduce the chances of winning.  Attending school and extracurricular functions, and spending quality time with the children will be a huge benefit to the children and will impress the Judge. 

Second, parents should avoid all illegal drugs and excessive alcohol.  In addition to impairing parenting decisions and putting children at risk, drug and alcohol use reduces the chances of being awarded custody.  Drug and alcohol testing can be ordered by the Court upon the request of the other parent, and will show the type and quantity of drug used over the preceding 90 days or more.

Third, be reasonable and flexible in all communications and interactions with the other parent.  Despite any differences you may have with the other parent, co-parenting is an important factor for the Court to consider.  Being unreasonable shows the Court that giving custody to you will likely result in conflict and emotional harm to the children.

Fourth,  remain positive in your communications with the children.  They will need to see that, despite the differences their parents have, you support and respect the other parent.  Trash talking the other parent in front of the children does serious emotional harm to the children and harms your chances of winning. 

Careful planning for a custody fight can signicantly increase your chances of success.  Christiansen Law Firm assists individuals in child custody cases.  Christiansen Law Firm's experienced attorneys can review the details of your famiy circumstances and can advise you on the best course of action.  For more information about how Christiansen Law Firm can assist you in your custody case, contact our offices in Houston or San Antonio.